Maybe her DH will check her email, though, to let people know she's ok. He wouldn't check here.
Maybe her DH will check her email, though, to let people know she's ok. He wouldn't check here.
Originally Posted by purplekitty
I am a totally private person, yet if I disappeared, I would welcome the effort of WBTD to locate me.
Marnie
If she's that private, she probably didn't put her name in the directory if she was admitted to the hospital. I know I didn't any time I went in this pregnancy b/c I didn't want random people that I knew coming in to visit me.Crazy idea - can someone call the hospital and ask to speak with 'Jaime.....shoot, the pen smeared and I can't make out her last name.'From what they told me, if I didn't agree to be in that directory, if someone called to ask about me, they were not even allowed to tell them that I was IN the hospital.
Don't worry "Jaime" no last name would not fly with a hospital operator.
Lots of hospitals in SF too.
If I posted the OP and then vanished, and someone from here called me up, and I got all HOW DAAAARE YOU CALL ME! I'M A PRIVATE PERSON!y'all can feel free to call me a series of expletives. It'd be justified. In other words: I can't imagine her being bent out of shape because a mess of people give a crap about her after she posts something as worrying as that. In other words v2: I wish the person that had the # would just freaking call already, because frankly I think it's stupid not to. A card in the mail? Seriously??
I do still very much hope everything's OK...but if she comes back all, "Hey...oh, right....yeah, everything's cool. Sorry, I've just been busy with my book club" I'm going to cuss a lot.
What could my mother be
to yours? What kin is my father
to yours anyway? And how
did you and I meet ever?
But in love
our hearts have mingled
like red earth and pouring rain.
Poems of Love and War
A card IN THE MAIL?
There are two kinds of people in the world, those who believe there are two kinds of people in the world and those who don't." -- Robert Benchley
As I see it either one of two things are going on...
Either the situation is such that she is dealing with something significant which is keeping her from getting online in which case trying to push our way in to find out what's going could be an intrusion...
or
The situation is such that she's fine and just hasn't gotten around to posting in which case there's nothing for us to be concerned with...
I'd like to know what's going on just as much as the next person but really...all we can/should do imo...is hold out good thoughts and wait.
We're the family in the waiting room...and all we can do is keep checking our watches and hope that someone who knows what's going on will show up soon to let us in on it.
Mom to Taylor (16), Katie (13), Ben (10) & Grace (7)
I will continue to keep Niobe in my thoughts this weekend.
I hope everything's okay. It's not like her to be gone so long, and coming as it does after that post doesn't give me a good feeling.
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