I just have my two boys this year. I was planning on cooking, but now we're going to go to J's sister's house about 40 minutes away. It will be lively, and she has kid's their ages. The funny part is that J and *his* boys are going to his parent's house about 5 hours away. We were invited, but since Justin is only home a week I knew he wouldn't want to stay a full weekend with a lot of people he doesn't know.
I might make a small version of TG dinner on Friday to have some leftovers.